Bachelor Party Do’s and Don’ts
BACHELOR PARTY DO’S AND DON’TS
There are many different ways to throw a bachelor party, from fancy five-star dinners to a Texas Hold’em weekend at the casino. But regardless of your party preference, there are some basic tips and advice worth following. These bachelor party do’s and don’ts can make or break the celebration – and even the groom if you’re not careful.
1. DON’T LET THE GROOM PAY
No matter how generous he is, the groom shouldn’t have to pay for anything during his bachelor party. It’s his last night out as one of the guys, so take care of him. Certain exceptions can be made, especially if the celebration spans a weekend or longer: think Las Vegas. But make sure to cover him when it counts – after all, it’s his celebration, right?
2. DO SOMETHING DIFFERENT
If your group always hangs out at the same bar or goes to the same restaurant or club, don’t go back to that place for the bachelor party. Take the groom somewhere different – hopefully somewhere nicer too. Whether he’ll admit it or not, this is a big deal for him, so do something special. Go all out – that way there are no regrets when he looks back on the night 10 years from now.
3. DON’T LET YOURSELF GET TIRED
This is particularly important for weekend excursions or trips to Vegas. No, we’re not talking about doing anything illegal here, but some really simple things can help make sure everyone is energetic and enjoying the party. Sleep can be hard to come by on a bachelor party weekend, especially if a night-long poker tournament is in the cards.
So know where to find a good cup of coffee if you’re on an overnight trip. Better yet, bring one of your own coffee makers along with you. This can save you some serious money too – Starbucks gets expensive!
4. DO SOME ADVANCED PLANNING
As great as it made the plot of The Hangover, don’t try to hold a bachelor party any closer than three days before the wedding. There’s just too much that can go wrong. Trust me – the bride and her family will thank you. Be sure to start planning early as well, especially if there are a number of guys traveling for the occasion.
5. DON’T LET THE GROOM DO ANYTHING HE’LL REGRET
He’s still engaged, after all, so don’t let him get too out of control. It’s the best man’s job to make sure the groom behaves, which is actually the second most important thing he has to do – other than plan the bachelor party. Everyone else is on his own, just make sure to keep an eye on the groom. If Mario Lopez can get caught, then there’s no reason to expect that he won’t.
6. DO REMEMBER TO HAVE FUN
Despite all the excitement and planning going into the bachelor party celebration, the most important thing is to just have fun. At the end of the day, it’s all your friends together celebrating an important moment in the groom’s life. Don’t lose sight of that amongst all the other craziness that may or may not be going on. And remember that at the end of the day, it’s not where you are or what you’ll do that matters – it’s who you’re with that really counts.
